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The Family College · Course

Family Life, with Honors.

For sharing the load, having better conversations and finding your feet through family life.

Start level 1 free
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The seven levels

21 short courses in 7 levels. Each course has 5 lessons and an exam of 5 questions (pass with 4 correct). Retakes are included.

I NewbieShow up. Start small. Free

Getting ready: a new person is coming, and they did not read the manual either.

  • Expecting, TogetherBoth of You Are Expecting · Appointments Are a Team Sport · The Plan, Loosely Held · Feelings Arrive Early · When It's Hard to Get Here
  • The Nursery Is Not the PointThe Short List · Borrow, Inherit, Swap · The Money Talk · Prep the Freezer, Not Just the Nursery · The Hospital or Arrival Bag
  • The Village, AssembledName Your Village · The Visitors Policy · Grandparents, Welcomed and Briefed · Leave and Work Plans · Accepting Help Is a Skill
II ApprenticeOwn the whole task.

The newborn months: small person, big logistics.

  • The First Six WeeksSurvival Mode Is a Valid Mode · Feeding, Whichever Way · Crying Decoded (Roughly) · The Advice Firehose · When to Call Someone
  • Night Shifts, Fairly DividedStop Competing on Tiredness · Shifts, Not Martyrdom · The Handover · Daytime Is Also a Shift · Single Parent? Borrow Shifts
  • Looking After the Grown-UpsPhysical Recovery Takes Time · Baby Blues or Something More · It Can Happen to Any Parent · Small Self-Care, Actually Possible · How to Ask for Help
III PractitionerListen. Understand. Act.

The couple after the baby: still here, slightly sticky.

  • Still a Couple, TechnicallyTen Minutes, Not About the Baby · Date Night, Scaled Down · Affection Without Agenda · Intimacy at Its Own Pace · Appreciation, Out Loud
  • The Mental Load, ItemizedThe Invisible Job List · Own It, Don't Help With It · The Weekly Family Meeting · Different Standards, Same Team · Say Thank You for the Invisible
  • Grandparents, Advice and Other Weather SystemsA United Front · Advice: Receive, Thank, Decide · Things Have Changed Since 1985 · Let Them Love Their Way · Every Family's Different Map
IV SpecialistMake room for us.

Toddlers and little ones: tiny people, huge opinions.

V ExpertCare without conditions.

The school years: homework, lunches and a group chat with 94 unread messages.

  • The School Years, SurvivedMornings on Rails · Homework Without Tears (Mostly) · The Class Group Chat · Friends, Fallings-Out and Playdates · Sharing School Duty
  • Talking So Kids Listen (Sometimes)Get Close, Get Eye Contact · Say What to Do, Not What Not to Do · Listen Like It Matters · Big Questions, Honest Answers · Repair After You Snap
  • Discipline Without DramaTeach, Don't Punish · Consequences That Make Sense · Only Promise What You'll Deliver · Same Rules, Both Parents · Catch Them Being Good
VI Distinguished FellowPlan a life together.

Teenagers, family money and every kind of family.

  • Teenagers: A Field StudyEye Rolls Are Not a Declaration of War · Car Conversations · Phones, Privacy and Trust · Let Them Fail Small · Keep the Door Open
  • Money, Chores and the Family EconomyChores for Everyone · Allowance and Pocket Money · Save, Spend, Share · Talking About Money Honestly · The Parents' Money Team
  • Every Kind of FamilyBlended Families, Slowly · Co-Parenting Across Two Homes · Single Parents, Full Credit · Adoption and Origin Stories · Answering Other People's Questions
VII MasterA practice. Not a finish line.

The long game: traditions, hard times and the day they leave home.

  • Family Traditions, Invented HereWhy Traditions Matter · Merging Two Family Cultures · Tiny Rituals, Daily · Holidays Without Burnout · Let the Kids Invent One
  • When Life Gets Heavy, as a FamilyTell Children the Truth, Kindly · Big Changes, Step by Step · Illness and Grief · Hard Times Test Couples · Asking for Help Is Strength
  • Master of Family LifeRaising Adults, Not Children · The Couple, Rediscovered · Adult Children, New Rules · Grandparenting, the Sequel · Graduation
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Master of Family Life

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